Saturday, February 14, 2009

Be carefull about online dating

(My Original Blog Post: http://www.wealthyways4you.com/online-business/be-carefull-about-online-dating)
by Jennifer Stonemill


You really dont have anything to loose when it comes to being honest about yourself. Their is always someone that will love you for you and as always someone that doesnt care for who you are. Men and women alike want the same thing and I really believe they can find that special someone from an online dating service.

Once you are branded a liar, even your truthful assertions will be taken for lies. So, as they say, honesty is the best policy. Sticking to this online dating tip for a man will ensure that you have a fruitful relationship. At the same time, it is also possible that the girl you are dating may not find your true personality or other aspects appealing enough in which case it would be better to break off at that very point without causing each other hurt and misery than later on in the relationship.

Coming to the next online dating tip for a man, it is important to supply your recent photograph for your portfolio and not that, which was taken years ago. Your photograph is what your date will come to know you as and when you meet face to face later on, the girl may be shocked to see a different you and may be really put off at your lack of uprightness. This could really put you in a spot because whatever you say after that will be taken with a pinch of salt.

A very important online dating tip for a man is that he should allow the girl sufficient time and space before broaching the subject of a first real date. Do not rush her at the very outset, before she gets on a comfortable level with you. And when she is finally ready to meet you, give her the comfort of selecting the meeting place. An essential online dating tip for a man in this respect is to spend the first date and even the next few ones, if possible, trying to know and discover each other. Do not be overbearing or brazen so as to make her feel edgy or compel her to consent to anything that might put her off including walking her home.

Good Answer. Maybe Too Good:They like the same things you do. In fact they like everything you like. This should get your antenna working. Why? For the simple reason there is no such thing as one hundred percent compatibility. It does not exist in the offline world so do not expect it online just because you have more would-be dating partners to choose from.

Their is no need to rush into any relationship with anyone you meet through an online datoing service. Your guard and apprehension is your only weapon of defense. Be logical and smart about the position you are putting ypourself in. If you feel you have honesty in the person you have met then keep moving forward and slow.

Online dating services have proven that many happy coulpes come together and actually married as a result of their services. I know you are wondering how true that actually is right? I know I was. It may be in the back of your mind how people actually go about getting those kinds of results. The only way to ever find out is to venture into the online dating scene.

The guy or gal you just met from an on-line dating service really wants to meet with you in person. You share in the same feelings and think your really compatibe so why not just meet where ever he or she wants to in person?

Your probavly feeling that your online dating friend that you've been spending alot of time chatting with is really okay and you want to meet with him or her personally. Caution still needs to be observed because actual body language and actual facial expressions cant totaly be observed when conversing online.

Look for many forms of expression from anyone you meet from online dating services. Whether its someone you want as a friend more importantly someone your looking to have a more intimate and lasting relationship with. Its the old saying that will always guide you, if it feels to good to be true then it probably is.

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